The Saloon Guy
I never really had much of a chance to not live a drinking mans life.
I grew up in an area of New York City named Inwood. It was a very Irish Catholic neighborhood with a bar on every corner. The great newspaper man Walter Winchell used to refer to it as Ginwood.
The corner Saloon on my street was called the Shannon View. In my childhood mind this was the place where all the fun happened.
It was the place I was told to go to if there was ever trouble and I could not find my parents.
It was where the young people and the older people all gathered together to share thoughts, laugh, sing and teach each other.
It was wear my Dad would go if he was a few bucks short on the rent. He would get it from the Shannon View’s benevolent owner. He would tell my father upon making the loan ” if you can’t pay me don’t stop coming in. I’ll loose the money but not the customer”.
I look at Saloons as a great convivial place where everyone who has the price of a drink in his pocket is as good and smart and entitled as anyone else, regardless of social status or wealth.
It is the most equal place in the world.
I started tending bar at nineteen years old. Through the years I have met some of the most interesting, smart, funny, intellectual and sexy people in the world.
My ability to handle myself in bars led to other career opportunities. My entire broadcasting/journalism career started because I met a radio DJ in a bar. It is a career that has lasted well over twenty years. Yet, no matter how much I have accomplished, no matter how many Television shows and Radio shows I have done, deep in side I am just the kid who wanted to hang in the Saloon with my Dad and his friends and listen to the stories and sing the songs and have the fun.
I owe a lot to Saloons and I appreciate the Saloon way of thinking and conducting ones self. Call it a Saloon State of Mind. A place where there are rules and oddly enough no rules.
I hope, with this blog, I can relate that way of life to the comings and goings in today’s complicated world.
I named this blog “The Saloon Guy ” because that is the greatest imprimatur I can give someone. Growing up the way I did and where I did, if you were asking about someone and were told ” he’s a great guy, you know him, he’s a Saloon Guy”. That was just about as good as it gets.
Slainte.
Steve McPartlin
14 responses to “The Saloon Guy”
Bill Brennan
May 23rd, 2009 at 16:18
Hi Steve:
I do not know blogs and do not have a website. You have moved me with this website because of your honesty and truth. I wish I had the bravado to tell the truth of your inner soul. You are a good man. I like this vehicle and your premise. You stories are simple, yet insightful. “Do the right thing”. You are correct to remove your own self-serving motives and Do the right thing. I am proud to know you my friend.
Thank you for sharing your inner thoughts from the heart.
with Love and Prayers, Your Paulist Player bud, Felix. ( I did try to steal your $ 20.)
God bless You,
Billy Brennan
Bill Brennan
May 23rd, 2009 at 16:27
Steve:
Very well done. Good Luck and my prayers are with you and for you. I have added your Blog to my favorites and will look at it daily for new gems and pearls of wisdom. Thanks for sharing.
with Love,
your PP friend felix
Billy Brennan
Tess
May 24th, 2009 at 13:25
Hi Steve—I agree with you about “saloon ‘people’”—some of the folks I have worked with just laugh when I tell them there is a standard of behavior in bars, or at least should be—–for guys and girls, and the very first one I learned from my Dad——never use the ladies room without buying a drink—–not that he used the ladies room—-that rule has its own rewards of various degrees—–socially speaking, of course. Good luck with the blog–hope to see a lot on it.
Mary E Pollak
May 25th, 2009 at 13:52
I was raised on the smell of sawdust, a handful of cashews from the nickel machine and never forgot how the icecubes melted in the middle when I was served a coke as I swiveled on the barstool next to my dad after his MorningGlory games. Putting another quarter in the jukebox for 3 songs and hearing a lot of guys saying “I’m not here” when the phone rang. Your story is one so many of us can relate to, Steve, and I thank you.
Willa
June 1st, 2009 at 03:29
From SF to PB, who’da thunk we’d share this path? You were a ballsy guy in SF, whom I liked but didn’t know too well…, just well enough to know you were trouble!
Now you are a dear friend whom I love and admire. Your straight up no bullshit view on life always cracks me up & I have really enjoyed learning what a true blue sweetheart of a guy you really are! I also think you are so talented – on camera or behind & I love seeing the ‘uncensored’ viewpoint via your writing.
You make me laugh , you make me think about what is real & true… and you make me glad that I know you. Break a leg, Baby!
Kevin OReilly
June 4th, 2009 at 19:23
I didn’t know you could start drinking in Inwood at nine years old, as the your picture would indicate!
Great stuff, keep it comming
All the best,
KO
John
August 11th, 2009 at 22:20
hey stewart guy, you lice of the earth !
why don’t you learn the story before you make an assinine comment like that about Marty, the sallon guy. Marty went to college with Tim Russert and they remained frineds until his death. You are nothing short of a low life in many people’s eyes for your comment. I look forward to hearing that you are suffering with an illness that tortures you you lice of life !
Mike Stewart
June 13th, 2009 at 21:08
Steve, What bars did you tend and how long did you tend for? One other thing, what would have happened to “good old Marty” if he pulled that same stunt of taking the fifty, not placing the bet as promised and welching on the win money in Inwood? (Grin) I think he would have been known as Marty the lying scumbag… Don’t you?
Bob Benson
June 15th, 2009 at 02:30
This website needs to exist, and Steve McPartlin is the best person to stand behind it polishing the glasses.
Steve’s broadcast career is not the only one to be born and burnished in bars. Saloons are the best place to learn the delicate art of indelicate discussion. In past days, guys learned to defend their positions strongly, but without having to defend their teeth. It was a balancing act that led to great discussions that could go on for hours, because everybody knew the rules.
Or as Steve points out, the rules of how to have no formal rules.
Lack of proper saloon training, I submit, is what leads to shows like “The View.” Jeez, what a headache.
A little over 40 years ago, Nick von Hoffman wrote a critique of radio comentators, comparing them to the loudmouth at the end of the bar.
I know the loudmouth he was talking about. But that wasn’t the guy who became the good broadcaster. The real pro was the guy who had ten other guys around him arguing something (usually sports) and kept it interesting, hilarious and just this side of profane.
There’s another important truth you had to learn to be welcome in saloons. From time to time, we all get a little behind on the bar tab. When it happens, don’t stop coming into the bar. It’s reassuring to the owner when you drop in and acknowledge the debt. That way, you’re always welcome.
I learned that from the greatest “saloon guy” is every knew, who parlayed his bars into a broadcast business that spawned the most successful radio shows in history, and made millionaires of all involved.
We all owe debts. Stop in and let the barkeep know you’re working on it.
In my church, we call that “prayer.”
Keep up the great work, Steve.
Drew Conrad
July 7th, 2009 at 22:36
What a fabulous website! Love the concept. I am a musician in Los Angeles, in a 3-piece band. We are about to embark on our 4th self-funded UK tour. We’ll play some well-known venues there, but mostly we play at pubs. Every time we play in the UK, at some point, at some tiny pub out in the middle of nowhere, somebody will say “You mean to tell me you guys have come here all on your own to play this pub?!” And we say “Yes!” “But…why?!” “Why? Your pub culture. We don’t have that where I come from. You see that elderly gentleman over there, chatting with those younger folks? Well, you won’t see that in LA. And do you know where we are sleeping tonight? In this pub, because the owner insists we stay here.” Saloon, pub, whatever name you call it, I adore it! (Incidentally, Tom Bergin’s in LA gets about as close to your concept of “saloon” as LA can get! Definitely my local haunt. Cheers!
Gene Kelly
March 17th, 2010 at 12:50
Steve,
It has been cathartic viewing your blog! As an old New York bartender of 25+ years, and a Saloon Keeper now, it puts in a nutshell why we do what we do. Respect! That to me is the key! Treat your customer with respect and vice versa.
I remember my first “Real Job” out of college. There was always the saloon deemed to be the office hangout.Ed McGovern, a long time sales guy was our tour guide. He introduced all the rookies to Mike and Wally our bartenders, made sure we watched our mouths, drank competently, didn’t puke in the men’s room and most of all tipped “The Boys” a minimum of 20%! Would that some of todays youngsters could receive the same sort of mentoring! Great job, Stevie! God Bless!
Geno
Gene Kelly
March 17th, 2010 at 12:51
By the Way! A most Happy St. Patrick’s Day to all!!
Pat Michael Pepe
April 7th, 2011 at 16:24
Steve It saddens me personally that the mention of Jimmy
Weston’s on 54st& Lex is rarely mentioned. I am a 77yr old and still remember Jimmy and his staff, Jack McAndrews, Patty Quinn, Tommy Furtado’s music. Jimm”s was my second home. The main stays Frank Owens and too many to remember. It was truly a sports and entertainment palace. Atheletes, Movie , and the famous and infamous. But never a problem Friendship was the name there, I had the pleasure and honor to be invited to the Sports Writers New Years Party by Jimmy. When Jimmy closed shop and later went to Spring Lake and then Runyons, I hoped it would be a new venture for him but alas it was not to be. I still have Jimmy’ Obit in my possesion. Jimmy god bless you Mike the Bartender Nick Pappas. Some gone other I dont know where. But would love to know. There a are so many stories I can tell. But space is at a premium.
patrick power
April 24th, 2011 at 12:07
hi steve;
did happen to see this site, dubble down saloon in vegas.. he the writer was talking about this english guy they had to get back to his hotel,and it went on from there.i had ask the writter in a email had he seen your blog and told him that inwood was full of doubble down saloons,but didn’t serve olympia beer.as for englishmen i asked if he had phone number ill meet him dublin,but we have to do something about that god awful accent… happy Easter